BDSM SAFETY
SAFETY
When you top it is your duty to make the scene is SAFE. Pay close attention to EVERYTHING...it is in your hands.

GENERAL SAFETY HINTS

When securing your submissive, make sure that you do not cut off circulation or stretch muscles too much. It is possible to cause perminant nerve damage. Check that cuffs, rope (or what ever means you use to secure them) are not too tight. Make sure submissives wearing gags, hoods or masks can breathe with ease
Always use a safe word or signal to halt play in bad situations
If your submissive is gagged make sure a clear signal is arranged before play starts. A submissive should NEVER be afraid of using the safe word and the Dom/me should respect their subs right to use it..
Never leave a bound submissive alone in a room. Anything could happen and a submissive will be unable to help themselves. It can cause emotional trauma as well
ALL TOYS  should be cleaned after use, even if used on the same partner.

Alcohol and drugs do NOT belong in a BDSM scene -
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