I'm just a guy who's really into BDSM. Bondage is a huge turn-on for me, and I'm terribly submissive. I love the power struggle of all of it. I love it when a girl is completely in charge of me and I can't do anything about it. The feeling of being helpless and begging, teased and tortured, ooh, it makes me all tingly. :-)
For those of you who aren't experienced in this dark and wonderful deviation, it is a past time that should only be engaged in by consenting partners who respect each other's limits. Pain, teasing, humiliation, these are all beautiful things in consenting context.
And at times, I like being in control. I like handcuffing a girl to my bed, blindfolded. She knows its coming, but will never know where or when. I love teasing her with my hands and mouth until she's just about to cum, and then stopping. I love it when she begs, shaking, struggling to get free of the bonds, but I just keep teasing her, letting her get really close, but not letting her cum. After half an hour of intense teasing, she'll do anything... And that's precisely what I make her do.
Some girls really like a good spanking, and I love to indulge them. Hands tied behind her back, bent over my bed, the cane comes down over and over again, stinging her tender ass. If she struggles, I push down on her back, forcing her to stay still while I dispense her punishment.
And being a submissive male, I love it when she gets revenge for my cruelty the next night. Every bit of pain and anguish is repaid as I beg her to stop. She hurts me, and its beautiful. She loves my agony. She loves to see me suffer and beg.
So my real fetish, as you may have surmised, is teasing and denial. I love it when someone (usually me :-)) is at the EDGE of orgasm and isn't allowed to cum. I love it when they're forced to push their limits in order to achieve their base animal needs.
You'll do ANYTHING to get free, to smash your lover's face into your sex, and it's a wonderful moment if they'll let you.
